Let's to be liars!

Have you ever feel - this man is a liar, when he/she told you something nice, but you did not believe? Let's think: Why people are liar - me, my sister, friend, even you? 
Before identification this reasons, let's think: when you gonna do something, action or business, you do it for better results or you expect something better, right? If you are not a maniac), if you are an adequate person with normal brain and permissible deviation, everything that you do - is better for you, your family, community society.. A lie is action. So, people are liar with good expectations. All time for yourself.
Actually, psychologists proposed many ideas Why people are liar.
"1) Do not want to upset the person to whom there is sympathy
2) Do not want to get the blame in own address
3) Do not want to clarify the relationship and scandal
4) Do not want to open the truth that will show me in a bad form"
(article "Why people are liar", russian translation )
There is the most 4 common reasons. But in my personal view, definitely we can determine just two:
1) People fear to lose
2) People want to feel admiration from someone
We fear to lose our image (good impression), face in community, good relationship with close friends, beloved. But you can say: "No, Sergii, I told lie, coz I wanted to safe this person, do not make him/her nervious, save health.." Really? Of course, we have to care our relatives, parents and close friends.. Because some tragic situations, faithlessness, adultery can strike a blow them.. Paradoxical, but people fear her/his reaction! Again, we fear a reaction on true action from them, facts, bad, stress.. See, as stated above, the most common 4 "Do not want"-reasons. Well, "Do not want", because of fear, unpleasantly, bad mood, negative emotions..
Second reason in this clasification, is about "be better, than in reality".

In my personal view, people are liar, because they do not have enough confidence in yourself. Yeah, lack of confidence is probably not just one fundamental reason that make "liar-people", but one of the most considerable..


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  1. "In my personal view, people are liar, because they do not have enough confidence in yourself. Yeah, lack of confidence is probably not just one fundamental reason that make "liar-people", but one of the most considerable.."

    Agree with you. And some another reason - sometimes we lie because truth can provide many question. For example: "How are you? - I'm OK. (Actually my life sucks but it's not your business, so I lie to you only for excepting questions)".

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  2. Heh, Ptah, i know more sociable and official definition rather than " it's not your business" - it's ethics and morality :-)

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